Have you ever thought about playing Russian roulette? If you are wondering what is that, here is the story. A player places a single round in a revolver, spins the cylinder, places the muzzle against his or her head, and pulls the trigger. The chances of survival are 5 out of 6. If the player wins, he gets a big reward, (say, a several million dollars). If he loses, he leaves the world empty-handed. The probability of losing is 1 out of 6.
Now, say, you are offered several million dollars if you win this game. Will you play?
What if you see someone won the game and got the million dollars. What would you say about his decision on playing this game? Did he take a good decision? or bad decision? Someone may say that it was a good decision. But, the thing is, when we use the term "decision", we mean, it is a point in time, when the outcome did not occur yet, so the result is not at hand. The decision maker does not know the future. If you think about that point in time, was that a good decision playing the game?
The answer is 'NO'.
No matter how many times people win this game, if you ask a rational person, he will say 100% times, it is a bad decision, if you value your life. That is the thing here. A good decision cannot be judged based on the outcome. Because the outcome was a future information which was not available at that time when the decision maker was making the decision.
In the book "Winning Decisions: Getting It Right the First Time", the author referred the good outcome as a 'dumb luck' when the process of making the decision was not good. Quoting from that book.
The person who uses a good decision process and is rewarded with a good outcome deserves the ensuing accolades. But someone who uses a good process and is met by failure deserves praise as well. This person may simply have fallen prey to a bad break. Likewise, someone who employs a poor decision process but is met with world-class success deserves neither praise nor promotion. This fortunate individual is simply the recipient of dumb luck. Such luck happens, but you certainly wouldn't want to bet your career on it.
Rational decision making is a logical structured process that bases on the information you have as of today. Rational decision-making process incorporates your degrees of beliefs about the future uncertainties. As you cannot see the future, you can only have a belief about uncertainties. Your belief can be based on your past experiences, observations, statistics, forecast, data analysis etc. Incorporating your degree of beliefs and information at hand, the most logical action is what we call a rational decision.
The rational decision-making model cannot guarantee a good outcome, as none can see the future. But the rational decision-making model maximizes the probability of the best outcome, and save you (with reasoning) from regrets if you get the bad outcome. Because it is a process that utilizes the data and logic and performs the calculation incorporating your beliefs that were developed based on past data or experiences. That's the idea of a rational decision. It is only the rational decision that can give us the best hope when there is a fear of uncertainties.
Many times we blame ourselves for a wrong decision. Many of us spend our life with regrets, blaming ourselves for a bad outcome. Even we blame ourselves for some outcomes which we did not have any clue at the time when the decision was made. If you judge a decision just by outcome (rather than the process of making decision) and define the bad outcome a wrong decision, then you are being unfair to yourself. You can blame yourself only for irrational or emotional decisions you made, but not for the rational decisions you made. You should not be responsible for something that you could not avoid by taking any actions.
Say, you went out for driving and encountered an accident one day. You drive every day without any issues. You did not have any special reason to believe that the day would become a disastrous accident day. You might regret and think, I wish I did not go out that day by car. .... you regret....but that's the point where a rational decision can save you from regret.
At the end of the day, do you need a reason not to regret a bad outcome of your decision? If you answer 'yes', then make rational decisions and never regret a decision again.
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